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One of the suggestions I took seriously as I entered into recovery from alcoholism was the need to develop an attitude of gratitude. This required a total realignment of how I perceived things, as I had for so long only seen the negative and dreaded everything that was to happen. Existing in this black hole left me no option toward optimism or thankfulness about anything.

It turns out that my early mentors in recovery were correct: I had to adjust my way of thinking to develop a new way of life. Though it has not been easy to maintain the gratitude attitude all the time, I am happy to report that it has become easier the longer I have stayed away from booze.

Another of the practical tips my newfound friends gave me was to purchase and read daily the Twenty-Four Hours a Day book, known affectionately to AAers as the ‘little black book.’ This book contains daily readings and insights from others in recovery as well as prayers that are designed to help the one in recovery to navigate another day clean and sober. Like so many of their other suggestions, I took them up on this and am so happy I did.

I do read from it every day. In fact, I have been at this so long that my original copy fell apart and was replaced two years ago. I would like to share an excerpt from today, January 22nd, that has reminded me again of the importance of maintaining an attitude of gratitude:

Meditation for the Day

I will never forget to say thank you to God, even on the grayest days. My attitude will be one of humility and gratitude. Saying thank you to God is a daily practice that is absolutely necessary. If a day is not one of thankfulness, the practice has to be repeated until it becomes so. Gratitude is a necessity for those who seek to live a better life.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that gratitude will bring humility. I pray that humility will bring me to live a better life. (The above is quoted from Twenty-Four Hours a Day, Hazelton Publishing, for January 22nd)

Learning to thank God one day at a time for this chance He has given me has helped me to be a more grateful person. Yet, this does not come naturally for me. I can still to easily lose my focus on what God has done for me if I allow myself instead to concentrate on what I do not have as opposed to what I do. I must remember that it is my choice to live in this gratitude. When I do, I have such a greater appreciation of the world around me, and my place in it!

When my attitude is wrapped in gratitude, I am truly a ‘glass half full person.’ Not only am I more optimistic about the world around me, but in recovery I know exactly what my half-filled cup has in it (either coffee or Pepsi!).

It truly is a matter of perception. With a grateful heart/mind, I can have a much fuller and better appreciation of things. And when I start to look at the empty space instead of what I have, I need to pour the contents of that proverbial glass into a smaller one, thus reminding me to focus on what I do have going for me instead of lamenting what I don’t.

How about you? What are you grateful for today? And if like me you struggle in this area sometimes, what do you do to pull yourself out? I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.

Thanks for reading. Be blessed and be a blessing,

Pastor Chuck

9 thoughts on “An Attitude of Gratitude

  1. A couple weeks ago I was taking a break, not really thinking of anything, when a picture came to my mind. It was so clear: I was standing on a hill high enough to have some altitude to look around. I could see two ways. The one way I saw the good-paying job I never had, the places I didn’t get to go, the opportunities I missed. I felt bitterness rise up within me. Then I turned and looked the other way. The second way I saw all the jobs I did have, the people I met and lessons I learned as a result of those jobs, all the places I did go (Niagara Falls!), the books I’ve read, all the good things in my life. I felt gratitude and hope rise up in me. I had no reason to feel bitter or angry.

    Truly, gratitude makes life much better and in a sense, easier, and healthier!

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  2. Awe thank you for sharing this! Very motivating! Love that ‘mediation for the day’ you shared!

    Quite funny Pastor Chuck: ‘in recovery I know exactly what my half-filled cup has in it (either coffee or Pepsi!).’

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  3. I couldn’t agree more. If I’m ever beginning that pity party, i remember to even begin to count my blessings… even to begin puts a smile straight back on my face and lifts my head to Him who blessed me immeasurably. One of the lines I always loved in AA – “Poor me! Poor me! Pour me – another!” Self-pity does not lead to growth! 😀 Great reminder. Thank you.

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